The audio diary captures thoughts as they come to me, every single minute of every single day since September 2016.
The Buxom Girl On The Train
I got onto the train. There were some sexy girls on the train, man. From Kingsgrove all the way back to Campbelltown, I sat on the vestibule where the doors are.
I am still getting used to being in Australia and being amongst all these Australian people coming back on the train.
It was a packed train this time, so it made me smirk because it reminds me a bit of China.
Of course, the trains are structured in a different way. People can choose to sit upstairs or downstairs, and they can either stand or sit. I chose to sit between two girls.
I was looking downstairs, to a girl with a bright red top on. She had the biggest boobs, she was a blonde girl, and she had a black skirt too. I was looking at her.
When she got up later, she ended up having really big hips. She looked like a bit of a goer. She did not look sweet at all.
When I was looking at her downstairs, I could see down her top. She pointed her legs towards my direction, so I could see between her legs. It was all going off! It was like I was back in China.
Then, when she got up and prepared to leave, I was looking in her direction, and we gave each other an eye.
Girls Need To Feel Safe
Then I started to think, “What do you have to do to get a girl?” I think the most important thing you have to do is to make her feel safe.
When I look at this girl and do not say anything, I am not making her safe. I am making her feel worried.
She would think, “What is he staring at me for?”
Obviously it is because I like her, but she might think, “He might be a bad guy.”
Other Characteristics Girls Like
So, exuding a sense of humor – even though you do not say anything – would be a positive. A girl would feel safe around that.
Being polite would also make a girl feel safe.
Being a gentleman would also make a girl feel safe.
Also, talking to a girl would make a girl feel safe.
Ways To Make Girls Feel Safe
For example, I was at the bus stop and was not talking, that would not make a girl feel safe. It is only until we face each other, and we talk, and we have some conversation that the girl thinks, “He is a nice guy. He is talking to me. He is being polite.”
So, if you can exude those characteristics, then you can get a girl to like you, otherwise, she will be creeped out by you, because you do not talk.
The author of Diary Of A Mad Chaos from 1996 to 2018, The Lost Years book, Wubao In China (猎艳奇缘) book series, and Foreigner (华人) an exploration of race relations in Australia. Fluent in Chinese Mandarin, Macedonian, and English, the author currently resides in China, Guangzhou where he continues to make comparative analysis of the cultural differences between Eastern and Western societies.